[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.csgg.cz\/jak-porozumet-muzi-kdyz-jsem-zenou\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.csgg.cz\/jak-porozumet-muzi-kdyz-jsem-zenou\/","headline":"Jak porozum\u011bt mu\u017ei, kdy\u017e jsem \u017eenou?","name":"Jak porozum\u011bt mu\u017ei, kdy\u017e jsem \u017eenou?","description":"To \u017ee jsou \u017eeny rozd\u00edln\u00e9 od mu\u017e\u016f v\u00edme, ale pro\u010d je to tak slo\u017eit\u00e9? My \u017eeny se \u010dasto pot\u00fdk\u00e1me s neshodami s mu\u017eem. My\u0161len\u00ed, kter\u00e9 bereme jako sou\u010d\u00e1st n\u00e1s, ale nech\u00e1peme. A\u0165 se sna\u017e\u00edte sebev\u00edc, tak mu prost\u011b nerozum\u00edte. P\u0159ijde V\u00e1m, jako by mu\u017e mluvil \u00fapln\u011b jin\u00fdm jazykem, kter\u00fd je pro V\u00e1s nepochopiteln\u00fdm. Jen\u017ee mu\u017ei","datePublished":"2021-11-06","dateModified":"2021-11-06","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.csgg.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.csgg.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/0412c3dad30f33fa104fa4f87b3ce5af9aea5f3e20fa015d071a3573d325a5fc?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/0412c3dad30f33fa104fa4f87b3ce5af9aea5f3e20fa015d071a3573d325a5fc?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"csgg.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.csgg.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/man-1845814_960_720.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.csgg.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/man-1845814_960_720.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.csgg.cz\/jak-porozumet-muzi-kdyz-jsem-zenou\/","about":["Mu\u017ei"],"wordCount":777,"articleBody":"To \u017ee jsou \u017eeny rozd\u00edln\u00e9 od mu\u017e\u016f v\u00edme, ale pro\u010d je to tak slo\u017eit\u00e9? My \u017eeny se \u010dasto pot\u00fdk\u00e1me s neshodami s mu\u017eem. My\u0161len\u00ed, kter\u00e9 bereme jako sou\u010d\u00e1st n\u00e1s, ale nech\u00e1peme. A\u0165 se sna\u017e\u00edte sebev\u00edc, tak mu prost\u011b nerozum\u00edte. P\u0159ijde V\u00e1m, jako by mu\u017e mluvil \u00fapln\u011b jin\u00fdm jazykem, kter\u00fd je pro V\u00e1s nepochopiteln\u00fdm. Jen\u017ee mu\u017ei jinak mysl\u00ed, tak\u017ee i vn\u00edmaj\u00ed naprosto odli\u0161n\u011b ne\u017e vy.JAK S MU\u017dEM KOMUNIKOVAT, ABY \u0160LO V\u0160E JEDNODU\u0160EJI A DOS\u00c1HLO SE UR\u010cIT\u00c9MU POROZUM\u011aN\u00cd?\u00b0 Neo\u010dek\u00e1vat od mu\u017ee v\u00edce v\u011bc\u00ed najednou( nejsou \u017eeny)Zda mu\u017e vykon\u00e1v\u00e1 n\u011bjakou \u010dinnost, je zbyte\u010dn\u00e9 ho zat\u011b\u017eovat n\u011bjak\u00fdm rozhovorem, proto\u017ee V\u00e1s stejn\u011b neposlouch\u00e1. Mu\u017e je natolik zabran\u00fd do sv\u00e9 pr\u00e1ce, \u017ee V\u00e1s t\u011b\u017eko bude vn\u00edmat. Pot\u0159ebuje prostor a klid, aby se mohl pln\u011b soust\u0159edit na to, co d\u011bl\u00e1. A nen\u00ed to o tom, \u017ee by ho Va\u0161e konverzace nezaj\u00edmala\u2026. Hold nen\u00ed \u017eena, kter\u00e1 je zvykl\u00e1 zvl\u00e1dat v\u00edce v\u011bc\u00ed najednou.\u00b0 Mu\u017ei neum\u011bj\u00ed p\u0159edv\u00eddat, jako \u017eenyJestli\u017ee po mu\u017ei n\u011bco chcete, mus\u00edte mu to z pln\u00fdch \u00fast \u0159\u00edct, neum\u00ed p\u0159edv\u00eddat. Mu\u017e neum\u00ed \u010d\u00edst Va\u0161e my\u0161lenky, postr\u00e1d\u00e1 d\u016fvtip, proto nen\u00ed schopen dom\u00fd\u0161let. Jestli\u017ee chcete p\u0159edej\u00edt zklam\u00e1n\u00ed, pak neo\u010dek\u00e1vejte, \u017ee bude reagovat na Va\u0161e nazna\u010dov\u00e1n\u00ed. Mu\u017ei jsou nastaveni na to, \u017ee se jim sd\u011bl\u00ed jasn\u00e1 informace.\u00b0 N\u00e1le\u017eit\u00e1 odm\u011bna za snahu, je na m\u00edst\u011bPokud mu\u017e pro V\u00e1s n\u011bco ud\u011bl\u00e1, pak ho n\u00e1le\u017eit\u011b pochvalte. Jestli\u017ee pochvalu vym\u011bn\u00edte za kritiku, pak p\u0159\u00ed\u0161t\u011b nemus\u00ed hnout ani prstem. Pokud i tak, je schopen pro V\u00e1s n\u011bco d\u011blat, pak po\u010d\u00edtejte s miliony p\u0159ipom\u00ednek, kter\u00e9 u toho bude m\u00edt. Ka\u017ed\u00e1 snaha se cen\u00ed, i kdy\u017e nemus\u00ed b\u00fdt podle Va\u0161ich p\u0159edstav. Mu\u017ei pro v\u00e1s ud\u011blaj\u00ed prvn\u00ed i posledn\u00ed, ale je pot\u0159eba si uv\u011bdomit, \u017ee nikdo nen\u00ed dokonal\u00fd.\u00b0 Mu\u017ei cht\u011bj\u00ed, aby \u017eena byla \u0161\u0165astn\u00e1Jestli\u017ee V\u00e1s mu\u017e vid\u00ed \u0161\u0165astnou, pak je to pro n\u011bj to nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00ed v\u00edt\u011bzstv\u00ed. Mu\u017ei jsou r\u00e1di v\u00edt\u011bzi nejen ve vztahu, ale ve v\u0161em co d\u011bl\u00e1. Mu\u017e se p\u0159estane sna\u017eit, jestli\u017ee vid\u00ed \u017eenu neust\u00e1le ztr\u00e1penou, st\u011b\u017euj\u00edc\u00ed a v\u011b\u010dn\u011b nespokojenou. Sv\u016fj boj vzd\u00e1, kdy\u017e vid\u00ed, \u017ee je to zbyte\u010dn\u00e9.\u00b0 Omezen\u00e1 kapacita pro detailyMu\u017ee zaj\u00edmaj\u00ed hlavn\u011b fakta. Sm\u011br, kter\u00fd je dovede z ur\u010dit\u00e9ho m\u00edsta, na dan\u00fd c\u00edl.\u00a0Mu\u017ei vn\u00edmaj\u00ed jen podstatn\u00e9 body a ty hlavn\u00ed. Jestli\u017ee zach\u00e1z\u00edte p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 do detail\u016f, p\u0159estanou V\u00e1s vn\u00edmat. Bu\u010fte p\u0159\u00edm\u00e9, jestli chcete s mu\u017eem o n\u011b\u010dem mluvit.\u00b0 Na odpov\u011b\u010f si po\u010dk\u00e1teZda polo\u017e\u00edte mu\u017ei ot\u00e1zku, ne\u010dekejte, \u017ee odpov\u011b\u010f p\u0159ijde ihned. Je jedno, zda jde o n\u00e1zor \u010di jeho pocity. Pot\u0159ebuje dostate\u010dn\u00fd \u010das na to, aby si to srovnal v hlav\u011b. B\u011bhem \u010dek\u00e1n\u00ed mu\u017ee nepopoh\u00e1n\u011bjte k odpov\u011bdi. Mu\u017e bude sd\u00edln\u011bj\u0161\u00ed, pokud ho nebudete p\u0159eru\u0161ovat nebo ho dopl\u0148ovat.\u00b0 Mu\u017ei a postoj k \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed probl\u00e9m\u016f\u017de jsou \u017eeny schopn\u00e9 hodiny rozeb\u00edrat probl\u00e9my, nen\u00ed ni\u010d\u00edm v\u00fdjime\u010dn\u00fdm. Jen\u017ee mu\u017ei to maj\u00ed jinak. Mu\u017ei necht\u011bj\u00ed zdlouhav\u011b rozeb\u00edrat probl\u00e9my, cht\u011bj\u00ed je okam\u017eit\u011b \u0159e\u0161it. Dlouh\u00e9 \u0159e\u010dn\u011bn\u00ed je pro n\u011b frustruj\u00edc\u00ed.Spousta z n\u00e1s si mysl\u00ed, \u017ee nedok\u00e1\u017eeme pochopit mu\u017ee, proto\u017ee jsou osobou opa\u010dn\u00e9ho pohlav\u00ed. Jen\u017ee ono to \u00fapln\u011b nen\u00ed pravda. Nez\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed na tom, zda jsme mu\u017e nebo \u017eena. Oboj\u00ed mysl\u00ed, jen jin\u00fdm zp\u016fsobe. Vn\u00edm\u00e1me r\u016fzn\u00e9 v\u011bci, rozd\u00edln\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem. Jako \u017eena je obdarovan\u00e1 empati\u00ed, mu\u017e analyzuje sv\u011bt. A\u0165 u \u017eeny, tak u mu\u017ee je od p\u0159\u00edrody d\u00e1no, \u017ee maj\u00ed v sob\u011b schopnosti. Zda si v n\u011bkter\u00fdch v\u011bcech nerozum\u00edme, je v podstat\u011b norm\u00e1ln\u00ed. My\u0161len\u00ed obou pohlav\u00ed jsou rozd\u00edln\u00e9. Jak by asi vypadalo, kdybychom v\u0161ichni mysleli stejn\u011b? Asi by ob\u011b pohlav\u00ed byli vedeni pouze jedn\u00edm sm\u011brem.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        3.5\/5 - (4 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Jak porozum\u011bt mu\u017ei, kdy\u017e jsem \u017eenou?","item":"https:\/\/www.csgg.cz\/jak-porozumet-muzi-kdyz-jsem-zenou\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]